Manipulation and Control Jezebel Spirit and/or Matriarchal /Patriarchal Witchcraft
Learn how it effects your children (such as learning disabilities) and your home when a woman is controlling the household
Even though I refer to her (men can have this spirit as well if they use intimidating, manipulation and control with burst of anger to get everyone to submit or get their way).
The Jezebel spirit is born of witchcraft and rebellion. It is an occultic spirit. Anyone who gets into occultism such as divination needs to be in the know and wants to control their destiny. This Jezebel spirit is a very common spirits in operation today, and is a powerful enemy of the body of Christ.
[b]Any behavior not of Christ Character – negative and destructive to self or others, then here is an antichrist spirit operating in a person’s life. [/b]
Jezebel masquerades as a “protector” spirit to gain access, using the inroads already made by spirits of rejection and fear. When a person has rejection with fear, then a person will try to control their lives and control others to be in control. More on this subject later. There is fear when out of control. Fear drives this spirit into manipulation and control of others or self!
Why do you think people fall into occult practices or modalities. They need to control their destination. They need to be in the know which is the same reason Eve feel because Satan provided her something to give her more knowledge. The story of Adam and Eve is the first example of matriarchal witchcraft in the Bible. Adam listened to his wife and did what she wanted instead of obeying God. It is not godly order. And God gave out punishment for their behavior. Because of Christ we now are able to break the curse off. Thank you Lord, for grace and mercy.
Like I said earlier, there is a spirit of deep rooted rejection. Because of that deep rooted rejection in their lives, many times, a person (man or female) will try to gain identity, glory, recognition, power, and satisfy the need for acknowledgment of worth from others (in other words, the “praises of men” Matt. 6:2,5,16). Our identity comes from the Lord but they look to men to meet their needs by controlling to get their important to create an identity. This is an outgrowth of the desire for love and self-worth we all have – with the wrong focus – self. So, there is an unloving spirit operating as well. An Unloving spirit is an antichrist spirit to put yourself on the throne.
Second, the Jezebel spirit seeks to emasculate all men, or divest them of their authority and power over others. It fosters a distrust and/or hatred of men in general, and nurtures motives of vengeance on the victim toward some men in particular – usually as a result of abuse or neglect by a significant male in the victim’s life.
A Jezebel has a hard time trusting any person or anyone (even God) and so they feel they have to control others and their destiny. They are threatened when someone shows independence from them. Fear rises up and the spirit of the antichrist tells them they are loosing control. When that happens the abuse comes into play.
Household Out of Order
They represent the ungodly order that Satan has set up in mankind. We have also learned that this is occultism because it obscures the real thing the Godhead established and declared to be so in the creation of all things including governmentally and familial. Ahab representing the passive male rebelling or refusing to take his place as the king or ruler and abdicating it to his wife. Within this occultic framework is a lot of manipulation. Just a lot of bad fruit.
Spirits that manifest?
Leviathan: Demonic Ruling Prince promoting Luciferian Rulership through Arrogance, Pride, and Ungodly Authority…….
Behemoth: Religious Principality that takes truth and changes it….the Principality behind all Legalism, False Religions, and Deception of Truth. Also these Principalities work with lesser evil spirits to cause even christians to be the “knowing ones”…..found deeply rooted in the misuse of the prophetic movement and can be seen in rigid legalistic movements…typically…a spirit of religion…and error …also can be found operating in people who try to control others in the name of truth, as opposed to proper ecclesiastical leadership.
Scriptures about Godly Order
1 Cor 11:3 “But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.” (KJV)
The head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. Three headships in 1Cor. 11:3:
1. God is head of Christ.
2. Christ is head of man.
3. Man is head of woman — husband is the head of the wife.
The head of Christ is God. God and Christ are two separate and distinct persons (1 Tim. 2:5).
1 Tim 2:5 “For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus; (KJV)
Three main personality types of the Jezebel Spirit:
The high-profile type is generally gregarious, outspoken and highly visible. She or he is often seen as the one who wears the pants in the family.
The low-profile type is just that–generally soft-spoken, giving the illusion of being solicitous, protective, even very submissive. The low-profile type may be the most dangerous, as is the most difficult to discern. They have the prefabricated personality that is luring and pretending to be trustworthy, honest, fun loving and loyal while manipulating those all around like puppets on a string at their beacon call or need. The Jezebel relies heavily on manipulation for power, but it is extremely low key and very subtle.
This can be a husband that believes he has to control through violence, screaming to get others to submit to their authority. They use intimidation and intimidation to get their way or to control others. As you can see this spirit is very self-centered because it is all about him. There is usually self hatred operating. If they hate themselves, how can they love their wives?
Within these three types are two manifestations: the SEDUCER and the FRIGID. The SEDUCER uses any type of seduction available to gain control and power, as a method of manipulation. There is a tri angling of alignment with one person with the goal of controlling another person and/or building your own power through a spirit of seduction to seduce others to get their way – to gain control, to climb up the ladder for their importance and to gain an identity.
The FRIGID Jezebel personality can frequently be seen as the efficient (and often plain) executive assistant at the side of a powerful businessman or church leader. This Jezebel often lacks a gregarious personality, but may be very outspoken and aggressive.
Manifestations of Jezebel:
Usually a person with a Jezebel spirit has several spirits operating in them – read the characteristics and how they work:
Insecurity (Unloving and Rejection Principalities)– They are very insecure but their demeanor will show they are confident and very strong.
Fear (their are about 4000 different types of fears) – A Jezebel has fear of loosing control, fear of being controlled by others but also has a fear of man, fear of failure, fear of rejection. They are fearful of being out of control. This might have come from abuse when they were young when they suffered abuse and felt out of control and made a judgment that they would never be out of control or allow anyone to abuse them again. Fear is a very big issue with manipulative and controlling people. Out of fear can come many different manifestations of control. Fear is the opposite of faith and both demand to be fulfilled.
Self Idolatry (out of occultism) – Jezebel worships his/herself (keeps the focus on his/herself, except where a false attitude of compassion or humility serves his/her purposes). She has his/herself on the throne. Like I said earlier there is a Unloving Antichrist Spirit operating that causes his/her to focus on self. This spirit cares nothing about you but will use you for their needs and elevation. They truly do not love themselves, very fearful but yet very driven. Many times seen as an“outgoing fun loving” individual to draw many around for their needs and purposes and hidden agenda. Jezebel has to create an environment that brings about a sort worship from others. She must have dominance and control in her home. Other family members must exist to please them.
A spirit of Jealousy that comes out of the principality of Envy/Jealousy. They are jealous of anyone who receives recognition or attention. They are on the throne and desire all recognition to go to them. This is one of the biggest dangers to the Body of Christ, according to James 3:16, because it opens the door to “every evil thing” to enter in – not just to the Jezebel, but to the entire congregation.
Division – A Jezebel will plot quietly to bring division and destruction in order to get their agenda. They will pretend care and concern while actually telling gossip, lies and deceit to others to bring agreement and ultimately destruction, division and strife within the camp which many times destroys an entity, organization and or church.
Unrealistic expectations on others (perfection, performance and driven ness) – Expectations from others are many times unrealistic. Anyone attempting to relate to a person with this spirit is literally in a no-win situation. Nothing pleases this spirit and is driven by fear.
Perfection, Performance and Driven ness– more on this subject. Perfectionism is a common characteristic of the Jezebel – generating self-hatred in the victim. This is part of the “unrealistic expectations” he/she has toward herself, and an excuse for disrespect abuse, especially those in authority – they don’t “measure up”, or they are so fearful it becomes a love hate within self and they do not have to respect. Especially where a woman and man interact. Jezebel’s are men haters! They usually cannot connect and have friendships or intimate relationships with men. If they do there is strong abuse and disrespect that eventually is acted out like a vindetta to destroy and demean them.
Control and manipulation – This is the strongest nature of a Jezebel spirit. Nearly everything the Jezebel does utilizes one or both spirits to attain his/her goal. Focuses on weaknesses of others – He/She uses honest trust, faults or weaknesses perceived in the person he/she is attempting to control to create feelings of shame or guilt. If you are a very strong person, most likely arrange destruction against you and/or set you up for destruction by others.
a. Jezebels frequently ENJOYS “low-profile” manner in order to lure others around. Many times appearing weak, and needy. For them, it is a tool for attention, sympathy and other forms of manipulation. It usually has one of two purposes – to manipulate others into serving them, to gain feeling loved and attention from others because they truly do not lovethemselves because of the rejection they have received in childhood.
b. He/she will repeat continually stories of trauma and victimization to excuse behavior and get you to have compassion on their need. For example: she will tell you how much pressure she is under and tell you she is working ungodly amount of hours to get a attention and pity from others around to keep attention on self.
False Burden Bearing – So out of this comes many aspects of control and it links up with fear, false burden bearing, false compassion, enabling, extreme co-dependency.
A spirit of Murmuring and Complaining and criticism, – which are “servant spirits” as a stronghold. Uses criticism justify her disobedience of, or lack of respect for, others especially those in authority over this person. They do what they want within the work place, or anywhere they are in fellowship. Yes, Men can operate in this spirit if that do not love their wives like the church. As said earlier, Jezebel’s tends to be driven to control when they feel out of control. He/ She a “poor me” attitude, while using excessive criticism as a tool to manipulate anyone she feels are more confident or stronger than they.
A spirit of Lust – She has a spirit of lust for control and power. It can manifest as sexual lust to manipulate the boss, the minister, leadership for the strong need for attention and significance.
Remember they are truly weak and self hating of themselves. They strive to create division and destruction rather than peace and harmony. The need for attention drives them to gain what they they don’t have. He/she must have attention wherever they go. They have to be liked by everyone.There is desperate Fear of man which causes them to use whatever means they have to make others desperate for their help to make them self important. She can hold back on the husband to control him or get him to do what she needs him to do and many times withdraws from sex from her husband to get what she wants from him. Men with this spirit many times, just create a possesesiveness and demands within the home, and relationship by threatening to remove himself, financial support if she does not conform to his expectations.
They have bitterness and/or self-bitterness – if they do are misunderstood or do not get their way, they will displays many times verbal threats, vicious and sometimes violent physical assault when opposed. Past hurts and offenses are often played over in detail and then creating the martyr/ victim syndrome by the Jezebel spirit, because she knows a it can bring the attention needed for so much lack in her life.
a. Un-forgiveness: having a hard heart; not obeying the word; being rebellious; keeping a record of wrongs. Hebrews 12.15 Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled; they also have unforgiveness towards self. They hold are always the victim! The enemy continually accuses and reminds them of their failures and weaknesses.
b. Resentment: record of wrongs fueled by feelings of holding on to it; starting to meditate; foundation for spirits of fear
i. Fear of man
ii. Fear of rejection
iii. Fear of failure
iv. Fear of abandonment A Jezebel is eaten up by self-resentment – they resent their past, they resent their failures and they resent who they are. They have no self worth. The need for acceptance by others are more important than acceptance of God.
c. Retaliation: Always finding ways to make others pay; find ways to get even; premeditating attack or assault of destruction while pretending relationship. Romans 12:17-21 Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. V 18 If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. v19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. v20 Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. v21 Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
A Jezebel will have self retaliation. They will punish themselves and will drive themselves to destructive patterns. Many times result in addictive behaviors such as drinking, cutting them selves. They will create verbal and/or written diatribeagainst those they cannot control.
A Jezebel will have self-anger toward self. They have exploding episodes over self when things do not go right and will curse themselves.
e. Hatred: There’s not enough room on this planet for you and me to be in the same place at the same time.
A Jezebel will have a deep seeded hatred for self. They push themselves to no end because they do not have a true identity in Christ and think that works will give them an identity in the things they do but can never meet up to their own expectations.
f. Violence: Before I eliminate you, you’re going to feel my pain; you’re going to know my hatred; you are going to experience it. I will harm you, however I can. Can you begin to see the personality of bitterness?
A Jezebel will have self-violence toward self. They have a punishment type mentality by not sleeping because of the self-hatred operating.
g. Murder: The unlawful killing of one human being by another especially with premeditation. What about murder with the tongue or gossip? Diatribe– must attack publically to shame and destroy.
Spirit of Rebellion (coming out of occultism)– Jezebel hates authority since there is a fear of authority- especially a woman towards men. Remember they can’t relate to men from the love/hate deep within them. There is a conspiracy behind anyone in leadership or authority. Anyone who is placed in authority over her she will plot to destroy them. An early manifestation in childhood is a lack of respect for generally is displayed by the parents or guardian figure, they learn to disrespect self, others, possessions, either theirs or others.
Cursing – Jezebels curse everyone, which brings a curse upon themselves. Criticism is a form of cursing, both of the person being criticized, and of God their Maker. Murmuring and complaining is a cursing of circumstances, not trusting God for where they are, for who they are and for where He has placed them. Jezebel is a master at murmuring and complaining about everything and everyone.
Lack of Identity in Christ – Because of deep seeding rejection, they lack identity and do not understand their identity in Christ and know how to trust and let go. They have to be in control and so it is very hard for them to trust in God for their lives and others. They think they need to make it happen. This is a very big snare of the enemy. Because of the spirit of Fear, it is hard for them to just “BE” in the Lord without works, manipulation or making things happen in their own strength.
Lack in Trust in God – Again, they have a hard time trusting God. They truly believe they have to make things happen and cannot wait on the Lord for him to make things happen. There is extreme fear of failure operating in their lives that they truly cannot rest in the Lord and allow Him to make things happen for them.
Denial – A Jezebel usually cannot see they have a Jezebel Spirit. The victims must first recognize deliverance is needed. It is rare that a person, if directly confronted and told Jezebel is the problem, will believe and accept it. Denial is routine because of a spirit of deception. There is always some other reason for their behavior, and it is true that other spiritual influences may be actively in operation. The best way is to teach and give understanding on what fear looks like and the manifestations. Teach until they can see the truth and lead them into repentance.
When a man does not know how to be the spiritual leader, then it forces the woman to pick it up and be the spiritual leader of a home. Many women do not want this role but because the man is passive,did not have a good role model growing up they thwart godly leadership and model controlling dominating and intimidating nature rather than a gentle leader. At times there are men that are very Patriarchal and abuse the word of God to make his wife and children submit to him through manipulative and dominating intimidation. it is an indication he has self-hatred toward self and truly does not have a very good understanding of God’s love for him. A man is to love his wife as he loves himself.
His role is given by God and its not about skills or abilities it is God’s divine decision.
Scripture references:
To love their wives as Christ loved the Church (Eph. 5:25).
Eph 5:25 “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; (KJV)
To love their wives as their own bodies (Eph. 5:28,33). Eph 5:28 “So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.” (KJV)
Eph 5:33 “Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” (KJV)
To nourish (Greek: ektrepho (GSN-), bring up, care for, protect, Eph. 5:29; 6:4; Rev. 12:6)
Eph 5:29 “For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:”
(KJV)
Eph 6:4 “And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.”
(KJV)
To cherish (Greek: thalpo (GSN-), to foster, warm in one’s bosom, Eph. 5:29; 1Th. 2:7)
Eph 5:29 “For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:”
(KJV)
1 Thes 2:7 “But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse cherisheth her children:” (KJV)
To be joined as one flesh (Eph. 5:30-31)
Eph 5:30-31 “30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. (KJV)
To leave their parents for their wives (Eph. 5:31)
Eph 5:31 “For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.” (KJV)
To cleave to their wives (Eph. 5:31; Mt. 19:5)
Eph: 31 “For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. (KJV)
Matt 19:5 “And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?” (KJV)
Even church leaders will control its sheep through manipulation and control. You can see this if there is a religious spirit and the gifts are not moving in the church. You will see manipulation through guilt and shame on his sheep.
Diseases on children from a household out of God’s order:
(wife leading entire household )
- Dyslexia, Learning disabilities
- Hyperactivity,ADD/ADHD
- Autism (can be generational)
- Gender confusion
Many times when a person that is matriarchal, if they repent and start trust/depending on God in their husband, the children come into order sickness and disease goes away.
Conclusion:
A woman needs to understand that if she single or has a hurting/broken man in her life, she must look to God as her covering in the areas where the man is falling short.
A man needs to seek God as to why he is not being the loving leader of his family. The roots can be varied, but they all can be dealt with through confession, repentance and deliverance.
The ministry involves repenting for not trusting God and walking in the plans and purposes that He has created for each person.
Prayers if you have a Jezebel Spirit and desire Deliverance from the Spirit of Jezebel or Control and Manipulation
Father in Heaven, I come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, my Savior and my Redeemer. I thank you for showing me the error of my ways and allowing me the opportunity to make it right with you. I know that you love me and that your outstretched hands are reaching for me even as I speak. I come boldly to you admitting my need for deliverance and healing that only You, through the Holy Spirit, can give.
Father, I admit my wrong attitude toward the authority figures You have placed in my life, You first, and my husband second. I confess that I have rebelled against Your Word through my behavior to get needs met. Please, show me how my need to control and manipulate others came into my life that I may close the door to this forever. I choose now to forgive everyone who has ever hurt or abused me in any way. I forgive the following people by name (call them aloud). I confess my life-style has been sinful and abusive and ask Your forgiveness and cleansing. I humble myself before You and take responsibility for my actions. Right now, in the name of Jesus, I renounce the evil work of all witchcraft control, domination and manipulation and turn away from all such activity in my life.
I choose to break all ungodly soul-ties with those I have sought to control, dominate or manipulate. In the name of Jesus Christ, my Lord, I break the ungodly soul-ties release (those you have manipulated). By an act of my will, I submit to all authority You have placed in my life. I trust my submission and obedience to Your Word to keep me protect me and bless me.
Open my eyes, Heavenly Father, to truly and clearly see Your Word and grant me the strength of will to walk in it. In the name of Jesus Christ and through the power of His shed blood I bind the strong man of Jezebel, part of the Queen of Heaven, and command her and all associated unclean spirits to leave me.
In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I command the following demonic spirits to leave me now in Jesus name; I repent and renounce participating with ____________ the following spirits and ask for your forgiveness.
i.e.:
Self-Pity, Accusation, Indecision, Aggression, Intimidation, Attention seeking, degrading, Arrogance, Insecurity, Beguiling, Inadequate, Belittling, Intellectualism, Bickering, Backbiting, Brash, Jealousy and Envy, blackmail and threats, Jezebel, Premeditated plotting and scheming, Lack of confidence, Contention, Lying, Continuous murmuring and complaining, Lawlessness, Condemnation, Laziness, Confusion, Manipulation, Counterfeit spiritual gifts, Mistrust, Conditional love, Nagging, Charming, Overindulgence, Controlling spirits, Pouting, Dissatisfaction, Pride, Demands, Perversion (sexual; spiritual), Double mindedness, Psychology, Doubt, Philosophy, Disunity, Projected guilt, Discord, Martydom, Quick temper, Disruption, Retaliation, Distrust, Revenger, Deception, Rationalization, Delusion, Rebellion, Demanding, Strife, Defeat, Slander, malice, Determined plotting maneuvers, Sharp temper, Dominance, Short temper, Emotional outburst, Sorcery, Failure, Shirking responsibilities, Fear, Sensitive, Frustration, Sharp tongue, Sleepiness, control, Shame, hardness, Suicide, Spiritual blindness, False sickness, Self-defeating, Finger pointing, Sorrow, Frigidity, Turmoil, Grief, Ungodly discipline, Hatred of men, Unbelief, Hot temper, Ugliness, Vanity, Hopelessness, Witchcraft, Hypnotic control,self-torment destructive and addictive behavior, Whining, and Irresponsibility. Perfection, Performance and Drivenness.
I break and loose myself from all agreement with these demons and call on You, Lord Jesus, to set me completely free. Thank You Lord. I believe I am set free and I receive my deliverance from Jezebel done, NOW in Jesus name. Amen.
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